So now that I’ve been officially single for a while I joined Eharmony and Match.com. I figured for 100$ it’ll cost me for 3 months it will be worth it in the long run if I meet someone who is just awesome for me. Plus Schroeder tells me that I’m really good on paper but on a chance encounter I may not give the right kind of signals. Which I’d have to agree with. I’m just terribly nervous meeting a girl for the first time.
So anyway EHarmoney is cool cause it gives you an uncomfortably insightful personality profile. I apparently usually take care of others, very curious, very responsive emotionally, both focus and flexible in life, and sometimes I’m extroverted sometimes I’m introverted. The profile seemed a bit wish washy saying I like to go out and stay in, or how I’m very focused in life but also flexible. Admittedly this does describe me but it just felt a bit vague. Also the survey said I was very outgoing with my emotions. Which I don’t necessarily agree with. I’m much more likely to hold back then to throw it all out there.
I do like Eharmony because it requires less work trying to find someone who fits you. They system does it for you, not sure if it’ll work but we’ll see how it goes if the site ever results in a date for me.
Match.com is bit cheaper but you don’t feel as loved and cradled as you do in EHarmony. It just does a massive dump of information instead of hand selected profiles. I put in my profile and it shows you everyone who views you I can’t find an anonymous view option which I think is better, otherwise you’ll feel like a stalker if you want to view a page a lot. Besides being cheaper Match.com has a much better user interface, its easier to see peoples pictures and profile information, where EHarmony you have to actually click on a profile.
Eitherway hopefully this will all work out in the end